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April 1, 2014 | in Life, North America, Travel

5 Things You’ll Miss About New York City

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Lately I seem to be encountering a rash of people eager to hear how happy I am to have “escaped” New York City.

Aren’t you glad to be out? You can’t miss anything about New York… right?

I worry I may have been a bit overdramatic in airing my frustrations with the city.

Honestly, these folks are probably just remembering the day I took Charlie Mae the Wonderpup on the walk from Hell. She was nearly run over by a taxi, tried to eat a cockroach scurrying from a pile of sidewalk trash, and then was challenged to some sort of street fight by a hissing, rabid sewer rat who jumped up the curb and dared her- with its glinty, beady eyes- to ‘bring it, bitch.’

I had some words with New York City that day.

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Still, how could I not miss Central Park views like this? My favorite spot to sit and enjoy tea & a pumpkin scone from Alice’s.

The truth is that while I love being a Californian (I’ll take earthquakes over polar vortices any day), there are plenty of things I miss about living in Manhattan.

Sewer rats notwithstanding.

1. Productive travel time.

I hate driving in LA. Hate it.

Sure, the rush hour subway forced me to cozy up to random strangers in a manner that blurred the lines of sexual harassment. But this is forgiven when you realize how much you can accomplish en route. So much time to read: whole books were devoured!

Even walking was productive because, hey, at least I’m exercising.

twenty minutes in manhattan book
One of my fave subway reads about- what else- walking in NYC. (“Please don’t judge me by my cover. I’m a lot more interesting than the electronics manual I appear to be!”)

Here in LA, the most productivity I can squeeze out of a commute involves listening to NPR and perfecting creative new swear words when I gets the road rage. (And I gets it bad.)

2. Being lazy.

Don’t get me wrong. Living in NYC requires a ton of work. For one thing, it’s absurdly expensive. So it actually does require a ton of work.

But it’s the smaller things. Day-to-day things like grocery shopping and parking and walking the dog demand strategery, cunning, and sometimes brute force, as you elbow your way through the masses.

charlie nyc dog new york city
Charlie Mae agrees. Although don’t look so pleased with yourself, pup. Last I checked, you tried to eat a cockroach.

Adventuring? Not so much.

I recently wrote about the ease of lazy adventuring in New York City, and it’s true.

All you need for a good time in Manhattan are comfy shoes and a healthy sense of spontaneity. Opportunities for fun fling themselves at you with ridiculous frequency.

3. The FOOD.

My friends are sick of hearing uber-obnoxious things like “hmm, I’d rate that restaurant a 7 out of 10… but that’s on an LA scale. In NYC, it’d be a 4.”

I’m that person now.

And frankly, I wouldn’t want to eat with me, either.

little cupcake bakeshop nolita nyc manhattan new york city
One of my favorite bakeries in Nolita… every time I’ve been back I make sure to stop for one of their peanut butter & jelly cupcakes. Mmm!

I’ve straight-up argued with food & wine editor friends over this one (sorry, Jess), but food in NYC is The Best Food Around. I remember visiting Paris with Mr. M and marveling over how everything- everything!– was the new very-best-thing-I’d-ever-put-in-my-mouth. From a fancy restaurant, a street cart, or a museum cafe- it didn’t matter, the food was all AMAZING.

New York is no Paris, but I dare say it’s the next closest thing. If it isn’t really, really tasty… it doesn’t survive in Manhattan.

4. The anonymity.

It was one of the things I hated about living in Manhattan. Fellow Manhattanites would look at me like I was a deranged psychopath when I smiled good morning or- gasp- said it aloud.

It’s an odd & lonely feeling when people push past you all day without a second glance.

I began to feel invisible.

And in a way, I was.

view from empire state building new york city
It’s a jungle out there!

And in another way, the invisibility was something special.

It meant I could wear whatever I liked (flamingo-printed headscarf with Crocs, hellz yeah!), say whatever I thought, and completely ignore people before I’d had my coffee… without anyone thinking less of me!

I love returning to the land of the civil head nod as you pass someone else on the street… but every now and again, I miss being anonymous.

And making a beeline for my morning Starbucks without so much as a how-d’ya-do.

5. Shopping wisely.

Spiderman knew: with great power comes great responsibility.

And apparently I cannot handle the newfound power of being able to drive my groceries home because last week I came home with a 5-pack of sunscreen. Sun protection is no joke, but… a 5 pack??

When you physically have to carry every single thing you buy through the streets in all manner of inclement weather… you think twice about what you require to be a happy, functioning human.

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I did require this ginger jelly to be a happy human. I used to love shopping at the Union Square Greenmarket, and this jelly was worth its weight!

When I shopped in NYC, I knew exactly what items I needed; going off-list meant lugging another pound on the twenty minute walk home. Plus, as I learned when I recently returned to live like a temporary local, most Manhattan apartments don’t have pantry space for luxury stockpiling.

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Doot doot doo, looking out my (old) front door! (A little Creedence Clearwater Revival for you.)

I’m never going to miss that unfortunate mix of body odor and rotten Chinese takeout wafting out of the subway on steamy summer days. And while the dog might miss chasing cockroaches, I prefer our laidback strolls on the beach.

But NYC is so different from any other city that you’re bound to miss a few of the aspects that make it uniquely… New York.

She’s a one of a kind.

And I can’t say I don’t miss her.

What do you think you’d miss about your hometown?

 

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  1. Jenn April 1, 2014 Reply

    aww...well I miss everything! Your picture of ginger jelly reminded me of my dad and grampa. They both love ginger-anything. Me, not so much...unless it's ginger beef :) Unlike New York, Countenay is way to small to not be noticed by almost anyone, and everyone smiles and says hi. That never stopped me from running to the store in my stretchy pants and a hoody though ;) I can't wait to see New York sometime...when I go, I will be sure to check with you about what I need to see. PS...PB and J cupcakes? might have to try that sometime...I love Peanut Butter!

    • Miranda Santiago April 2, 2014 Reply

      Oh, your dad & grandpa would LOVE that ginger jelly then! I couldn't picture what it would taste like, but the guy at the market let me have a sample, and it's the perfect blend of sweet with a little kick. YUM. Even though I occasionally miss being "invisible" in NYC, people stopping to say hi just feels right to me! I never got over wanting to at least smile at people as I passed. I suppose my manner-obsessed mom would be proud. :} And YES- the PB&J cupcakes are amazing! I'm so not trying to derail your healthy eating, but I've made my own version at home by mixing crunchy PB into cake mix (instead of the oil) and using a jelly glaze. They're not as good as Little Cupcake Bakeshop's, but they'll do!

  2. Pam April 7, 2014 Reply

    Daniel and I end up talking about this every time we go 'home' to visit family. It would take something pretty huge to get us to move back, but there are a few things we'd miss... like those friends and family I just mentioned, Eder's Ice Cream, Mountains/views, hiking... although I don't have to go far for that now, and my favorite little sub shop.

    • Miranda Santiago April 8, 2014 Reply

      You bring up such a good point- it's *always* the people that make me miss my various "homes" the most! Honestly, I think having family & friends in Southern California is the only reason we moved to LA rather than return to San Francisco... nowhere feels like home without them! (BTW, I had to google Eder's and now reeeally want cinnamon crunch ice cream. It might be snack time.)

  3. Anonymous December 8, 2015 Reply

    Oh my god! I'm from New York and my parents moved out here for a job in 2012. Guess I was internet surfing for no good reason but I love love loved this article! Thank you for making my day a little brighter!

    • Miranda December 21, 2015 Reply

      I'm so glad my list resonated with you! I was just back visiting NYC last week and was amazed by how quickly I reverted to my old no-nonsense, subway-surfing self! Guess you can't take the New Yawkah out of the girl! ;)

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